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- Festivals (3)
A festival: unique aspect of people’s religious, music, dance, culture, social or ethical beliefs.
- An insight about Christmas: The story of the Little Prince
An insight about Christmas: The story of the Little Prince
- It’s christmas time again
In this festive period of shopping and merry a thought about what Christmas really mean
- Why do we celebrate New Year?
New Year is celebrated in different ways for different reasons, due to tradition and religious beliefs.
- An insight about Christmas: The story of the Little Prince
- Life (53)
The meaning of life: harmony, humour, caring, generosity, sharing and goodwill.
- Accepting others for who and what they are
Accepting others for who and what they are
- All Men are Created Equal?
All Men are Created Equal?
- Always means always, even when it is raining tears.
So I asked her if she trusted me, and if she knew that I would spend the rest of my life with her, no matter what turns it took.
- Anger and gender expression
Anger and gender expression
- Angry outbursts create pain and suffering
Angry outbursts create pain and suffering
- Breaking up and divorce can sometimes hurt
Breaking up and divorce can sometimes hurt
- Change Your Attitude by Tricking Your Brain
Let your brain start working for you, instead of against you. What a powerful comrade to have on your side!
- Connect with your true self and overcome challenges
Connect with your true self and overcome challenges
- Controlling and abusive tool: Disrespectful judgments
Disrespectful judgments as a controlling and abusive tool
- Culture influence who we are and what we do
Culture influence who we are and what we do
- Dare to stand for yourself and dare to be different!
Dare to stand for yourself and dare to be different and deal with deal with that feeling of frustration
- Difference between ethics and beliefs
Difference between ethics and beliefs
- Do not deny your negative emotions but challenge it
Do not deny your negative emotions but challenge it
- Ethics and Morality: The Morality Pendulum
Ethics and morality pendulum will continue to swing.
- Hell Yes, I'm a Bitch!!!! Are you??
Being a btitch means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be
- Helping someone get over the loss of a loved one
Losing a loved one is very difficult. No matter if it was a shock, or if it was coming, one can never be ready for that ultimate goodbye to their loved one.
- Helping yourself to overcome alcohol addiction
Admit yourself to a residential treatment center for fighting alcoholism to win the war against alcoholism
- How to Become Known as a Friendly Person
Friendliness is the feeling of liking for another person and enjoyment in their company, being open toward other people and developing a relationship with them.
- How To Build Confidence
Replace those negative thoughts with positive ones and display a natural confident personality like the confident successful people you are surrounded with
- How to create a new you and live your dream
How to create a new you and live your dream
- How to effectively reduce belly fat
Extra belly fat increases the risk of heart disease. With so many weight loss programmes people are feeling confused about how to effectively reduce belly fat
- How to lie - Convincing yourself first
How to lie - Convincing yourself first
- How to make friends and influence people
Before any new friendship can be formed, both parties must display a level of interest that goes beyond individual needs.
- How we get stuck in grief and how to let go
The grieving process and how to let go of grief
- How you can support a grieving friend
the simple act of being there is tremendous comfort to the grieving person. Listening to someone talk about the deceased is often just what is needed
- I wish you enough…….
Father and daughter in their last moments together at the airport.
- Is your logical mind holding you back?
Is your logical mind holding you back?
- Let the world recognise you by your courage
We project courage onto others—assuming they're naturally lionhearted—to abdicate responsibility for our own boldness.
- Living in denial of pain and sorrow
The longer you live the more loss you experience. In order to grieve in healthy ways, you need to understand the stages of the grief process itself
- Make your life more fulfilling than anything you've ever known
Make your life more fulfilling than anything you've ever known
- Marriage, women and their breast size
Apart from pregnancy, weight gain, no exercise and birth control or drugs will cause an increase in breast size.
- Nicotine addiction: A never ending battle
Nicotine is a highly addictive drug and with regards to dependency, many experts rank it ahead of alcohol, cocaine and even heroin.
- Nicotine addiction: A never ending battle
Nicotine addiction: A never ending battle
- Personal growth is all about the self image (part 1)
As a child you would have experienced good and bad episodes that formed your negative self image which cannot be improved by rational argument
- Personal growth is all about the self image (part 2)
Realise that your self image will only RESPOND TO EMOTION ONCE AGAIN. So you must IMAGINE and VISUALISE what you want by EXCITED about every aspect of it
- Success in life depends on your beliefs
Some beliefs I found consistently disempowering. I strive to dump beliefs that curtail my ability to access my potential in life
- Talking with the Devil
My heart is filled with many fears, but despite everything, the fruits of my life speak for me. The devil scare the weaker - people
- The act of apologising and forgiveness
A sincere apology isn't perceived as sincere because it's spoken in the wrong language.
- The difference between race and ethnicity
What is the difference between race and ethnicity
- The impact of our beliefs on our happiness
It is the difference in a perspective that states this is the way that life is supposed to be versus this is the way life actually is.
- The route to your dreams is not stable and steady
The route to your dreams is not stable and steady
- The trends in moral fashion
New ethical standards come and some of the old go. I hold no regret for some of the primitive cultures that were perpetuated against the oppressed majority.
- The White Man's Burden
The White Man's Burden was written over a hundred years ago.
- Tips for a safe and successful face lift
All surgical procedures have inherent risks and complications, including adverse reaction to the anaesthesia, risk of infections and damage to facial nerves.
- Understanding the stages of the grief process
The stronger the love the greater the grief. The act of grieving honours you and the significance of your loss
- West and its influence on the Rest
West and its influence on the Rest
- What is responsible for the lack of tolerance in the society?
there is no one cause responsible for the increased level of intolerance. One can say that those who are intolerant appear to suffer from perceived insecurity.
- What women need to know about breast lift
Breast lift as with any surgery, requires preparation and planning.
- Why men need women
Why men need women
- Wining is not everything
Those who do not accept that winning is not everything will be the ones who never take risk in their life
- You can get pregnant without having sex
Men release a pre-ejaculation fluid that contains sperm. This pre-ejaculation does not offer the man the same sensations as regular ejaculation
- Your life has incredible potential
life incredible potential
- Your past doesn't have to be your future
Let go your fear of the past as your past doesn't have to be your future
- Accepting others for who and what they are
- Mysteries (27)
Mysteries explained: dreams, death, rebirth or reincarnation, and the mysteries of the universe.
- Always walk on the Spiritual Path
Walking the Spiritual Path is a literal and figurative way of life
- Be open to receive what you create!
Learning to be open to receive what you create!
- Connect with your true self and overcome challenges
Connect with your true self and overcome challenges
- Do not deny your negative emotions but challenge it
Do not deny your negative emotions but challenge it
- Do You Believe In Your Dreams?
Dreaming without believing will not make your dreams come true, but a tantalizing distance until eventually your dream will simply fade and disappear.
- Do you think the Universe is friendly?
If the universe is really a friendly place, why not all of our dreams become fulfilled?
- Harness the power of subconscious mind
It is possible to get in touch with and harness the power of subconscious mind by getting a clear vision of what you want in your life
- How to create a new you and live your dream
How to create a new you and live your dream
- Is there a ghost following her?
Is there a ghost? Does ghost exist? What is the explanation for a paranormal presence?
- Let your actions mirror your beliefs
Whatever your religious or spiritual beliefs, how well do you practice them? Do you walk your talk?
- Make your life more fulfilling than anything you've ever known
Make your life more fulfilling than anything you've ever known
- Psychic Readings Fantasy or Reality?
Whether you believe in psychics, psychic abilities, or the paranormal talking with a psychic may help relieve stress and anxiety from your life.
- Re: Is there a ghost following her?
Is there a ghost? Does ghosts exist?
- Recognizing and using your intuitive power
Recognizing and using your intuitive power
- Snakes in cultural and religious beliefs
The way that people feel about snakes is heavily influenced by cultural beliefs and mythology. Many people may be afraid of snakes because some are venomous
- The Dark night of the Soul: Your Ego Sense
Your ego sense is so powerful — you invest it with so much of your thought and feeling — that your attitudes of life become based on an egocentric…
- The difference between ghost and spirit
The difference between ghost and spirit
- The difference between religion and spirituality
The difference between religion and spirituality
- The mysteries of the human mind
The human mind is powerful. There is no doubt that human mind has no limits. The truth is, there is absolutely NO limit to our human mind power
- The route to your dreams is not stable and steady
The route to your dreams is not stable and steady
- The transformation to higher consciousness
The dark night occurs after considerable advancement toward higher consciousness
- What is the meaning of life? Part 1
Introduction to the true meaning of life
- What is the meaning of life? Part 2
Second part of the introduction to the true meaning of life.
- What is the meaning of life? Part 3
The third part of the introduction to the true meaning of life
- What is the meaning of life? Part 4
The fourth part of the introduction to the true meaning of life
- What is the meaning of life? Part 5
The fifth of the introduction to the true meaning of life
- Your past doesn't have to be your future
Let go your fear of the past as your past doesn't have to be your future
- Always walk on the Spiritual Path
- Relationship (89)
Marriage, love, orgasm, sex, affairs, fatansies, flirting, loyalty and honesty.
- 21st-Century dating rules for men
21st-Century dating rules for men
- A real killer of romance and intimacy
It’s intimacy that most of us lack when we say we don’t feel anything for our partners
- Alcohol and drug addiction: The problem of co-dependence.
Co-dependents need to realize that they cannot make an addict stop his addiction
- Angry outbursts create pain and suffering
Angry outbursts create pain and suffering
- Are you wasting your time loving "Suckas?"
Examples of specific situations you may come across that clearly indicate you are involved with a sucka (or sucker)
- Becoming a human lie detector: Three attack-sequence primers
These sequence of questions virtually guarantees that you will know (a) if you’re being deceived (b) what the truth is if it’s not obvious from the lie.
- Breaking up and divorce can sometimes hurt
Breaking up and divorce can sometimes hurt
- Common online dating mistakes guys make
Common online dating mistakes guys make
- Confessions of a cheating wife
A cheating wife is having an emotional intimacy based extramarital relationship
- Dating is a sport - Just like fishing!
Dating is a sport - Just like fishing!
- Dating, lies and deception are often a package deal
Dating, lies and deception are often a package deal
- Dealing with argumentative people
One can be provoked into an argumentative situation at any given moment
- Dealing with the hurt and pain of rejection
Dealing with the hurt and pain of rejection
- Don’t be seduced and provoked by argumentative people
Provocative and argumentative people are out there that derive pleasure from pushing your buttons.
- Forgiving infidelity and cheating
Forgiving infidelity and cheating
- General indications of deceit
In an ideal society there would be no need for lies. But we live in a world of deception
- Gross and disgusting dating behaviours
Gross and disgusting dating behaviours
- Habits that cause your spouse to be unhappy
Habits that cause your spouse to be unhappy
- Have you gone too far with your fantasies?
The impact of romantic fantasies on marriage
- How and why men sneak out of relationships
How and why men sneak out of relationships
- How I became my woman’s ideal man
In my way of thinking, a little sexual intimacy will connect us. But that may not even be on her radar screen as a woman. Romance for her begins heart to heart…
- How to arouse your woman by stimulating her breast
Breasts have many nerve endings that it doesn't really require a lot of effort to stimulate a woman via her breasts or nipples.
- How to be stuck in a woman's head
How to you get stuck in a woman's head so she wants more
- How to bring a woman to orgasm everytime
Some men can get a woman worked into a sexual frenzy during foreplay, but then when it comes to intercourse, the momentum doesn't continue.
- How to build trust in a relationship
How to build trust in a relationship
- How to flirt to date a shy man
How to flirt to date a shy man provides suggestions on how to get a shy man out of his shell.
- How to forgive infidelity and move on
With the right guidance and understanding from your partner, you can not only rebuild your marriage, but make it more loving and stronger than it was before.
- How to get a girl to have sex with you
How to get a girl to have sex with you
- How to get a woman to love you
How to get a woman to love you
- How to get your woman to reach orgasm during intercourse
A suggested lists of the best sex positions for a woman to reach orgasm during intercourse
- How to increase sexual stamina
Three simple tips on how you can increase sexual stamina
- How to keep marriage romantic (part 1)
How to keep marriage romantic
- How to keep marriage romantic (part 2)
How to keep marriage romantic
- How to lie - Convincing yourself first
How to lie - Convincing yourself first
- How to lie to your partner when having an affair
Sometimes the success of the lies you tell when committing adultery and infidelity will depend on: how much sense the facts of your story make to your lover.
- How to make friends and influence people
Before any new friendship can be formed, both parties must display a level of interest that goes beyond individual needs.
- How to seduce a man and make him beg for more
Seducing a man can be as easy as it can be hard without knowing what to do. You need to know the right things to do at the right time.
- How to tell if a guy likes you
How to tell if a guy likes you
- How to tell if your girl will cheat on you (part 1)
She may have an amazing heart, but if her mental strength is low in certain situations she’ll just give in to any guys advances
- How to tell if your girl will cheat on you (part 2)
Weak will power is a question of mental strength, being gullible is a question of mental awareness, how easily her perception can be altered and manipulated
- How to tell if your girl will cheat on you (part 3)
A lot of girls cheat because they think that guys are going to cheat on them anyway, so they just do it.
- How to tell if your girl will cheat on you (part 4)
When it comes to assessing the likelihood of her cheating on you, this is single most important characteristic.
- How to watch out for the signs of deception
In an ideal society there would be no need for lies. But we live in a world of deception.
- How you can avoid emotional adultery
How you can avoid emotional adultery
- I was addicted to romance beyond what was best
Problems in marriage can be caused by holding “Hollywood” expectations for your spouse, or feeding a romance addiction.
- Important factors to consider when choosing a partner
Important factors to consider when choosing a partner
- Improving your romantic skills
If a man doesn't know how to romance a woman properly then the woman will become bored and unsatisfied in the relationship, and look for other options. Most…
- In love or addicted to love?
Loving relationships develop into deeper, longer term closeness and one may become addicted to love. Love addiction is a result of unfulfilled childhood needs.
- Internet affairs and fantasies will hurt you
you cannot find happiness by indulging in internet affairs and fantasies.
- Internet affairs: The signs to watch out for
The reality is online infidelity is a growing problem and because of the nature of cyberspace it makes catching a cheating spouse a lot more difficult.
- Love, sex and the male brain
The male brain sexual pursuit area that is 2.5 times larger than the female's
- Lovemaking techniques for today’s lovers
Lovemaking techniques for today's lovers
- Making a successful singles connection
we can take charge of our lives and enter into committed relationships with a clearer idea of what is right and wrong for us
- Meeting the essential romantic needs of a woman
One reason so many marriage beds are frozen over or boring is that couples just don’t have time for romance and sex.
- Overcoming the quilt of infidelity
Countless relationships end as a result of infidelity because the person who cheated couldn't forgive themselves.
- Parental relationship soured over interracial romance
Parental relationship soured over interracial romance
- Physical intimacy is essential in marriage
Physical intimacy is essential in marriage. When you fail to cultivate physical intimacy and romance with your wife, she is left with a void in her soul.
- Romancing your woman
Romancing your woman inspires her and brings feelings of intimacy to the surface.
- Self-interested behaviour in a relationship
Self-interest behaviour in a relationship is a non-mutually supporting behaviour
- Selfish demands, controlling and manipulative spouse
Selfish demands, controlling and manipulative spouse
- Sex positions that offer maximum satisfaction
If she wants to have an orgasm during vaginal intercourse, then she needs a sex position that is more likely to deliver it
- Talking dirty to pleasure men
Dirty talk is a type of pillow talk. You use vivid words to augment sexual enjoyment before and during the lovemaking.
- The absolutely best sexual position for deep penetration
This article gives the absolutely best sexual position for those couples who wish the deepest penetration possible
- The best way to start an online sex affair
What makes online dating services so excellent for this is that they simultaneously allow for confidentiality and secrecy without showing your hand.
- The difference between Loving and being in Love
The difference between Loving and being in Love
- The early warning signs of a doomed relationship
The early warning signs of a doomed relationship
- The major reasons guys don't call after a few dates
The major reasons guys don't call after a few dates
- The problem of co-dependence in a relationship
The co-dependent could be addicted to approval of others; could only be happy if others “make them" feel happy. They also can be “If-only” addicted.
- The qualities responsible men consider as sexy
The qualities responsible men consider as sexy
- The real purpose of a relationship
The real purpose of a relationship
- The signs of attraction between a man and a woman
The signs of attraction between a man and a woman
- The smart way to choose a lover
The smart way to choose a lover
- The wandering eye: every man’s battle
As with physically attractive women, if your shields aren’t up, and don't recognize the threat to your marriage, you’re flirting with danger.
- There are no cultural barriers to keeping romance alive
Culture is no barrier to keeping romance alive but it adds stress to marriage.
- Tips for using online dating services
Tips for using online dating services
- Tips on how to have more magnetism and charisma
Tips on how to have more magnetism and charisma and influencing people
- Unconditional love is the best present ever
Unconditional love is the best present ever couples can give each other
- Useful guard to using the phone when having an affair
Most men and women develop a love-hate relationship with their cell phones when they start committing some type of infidelity or adultery.
- What are the main reasons why people cheat?
What are the main reasons why people cheat?
- What do women really want from men
What women want from men. A definitive list of exactly what women look for in a man.
- What If The Other Person Won’t Forgive You?
Your partner may be withholding forgiveness because they do not trust what you’re saying. That’s why apologies need to be followed by a behavioural change
- What makes a male a man?
What makes a male a man?
- Which is the greater trait, loyalty or honesty?
The seemingly loyal devotee isn't at all loyal. They're dishonest; while the honest devotee is loyal to principle before position.
- Why do men dread commitment in a relationship?
Why do men dread commitment in a relationship?
- Why do people cheat on their partners?
The people with low self esteem who stay with assholes fear losing the relationship more and are more committed
- Why some people hate rules but fear God
When people love God and love their neighbour, they don't need petty rule-makers, they need freedom.
- Women can ruin relationships with some disclosures
How women can ruin relationships with some disclosures
- Would you consider flirting on the Internet as cheating?
Just because it’s on the internet, it doesn’t mean that integrity is supposed to be removed from our actions. Integrity is who you are, and what you do.
- “Dump proof” your relationship
The smart man, treating his "independent" woman with respect and consideration, easily "dump proofs" his relationship!
- 21st-Century dating rules for men
- Religion (23)
Understanding the art of workhsip, faith and the faithful, holy ghost and holy spirit, the Satan and the devil.
- A Christian woman’s dirty little secret
Men aren't the only ones today lured by Internet or television porn; a rising number of Christian women are becoming addicted to porn
- A psychic and a prophet - are they really different?
A psychic is to a psychic reading, and a prophet is to a prophecy. However, people fail to see these similarities because of differences in faith
- A real killer of romance and intimacy
It’s intimacy that most of us lack when we say we don’t feel anything for our partners
- Are there times when we shouldn’t forgive?
Whether the offense is as major as an extramarital affair or as minor as leaving the cap off the toothpaste, forgiveness requires repentance rather than excuse
- Christian women’s pornographic addiction
An explanation for Christian women’s pornographic addiction
- Counselling for Christian women addicted to porn
The lures of Internet pornography is you don't have to go anywhere or spend any money to become seduced by it. Over 70 percent of porn sites offer free images.
- Facing your soul's Dark Night
Facing your soul's Dark Night allows you to know your place in relationship with the Great Spirit.
- Freedom from resentment
We control our behaviour and ultimately resolve unpleasant feelings by a process —forgiving— that begins with an act of the will
- Gaining a positive attitude despite being hurt
Biblical forgiveness always insists on personal moral responsibility
- How do you forgive an unrepentant partner?
Forgiveness can set a person free. It can breathe new life into a tired marriage. But it’s hard work. Forgiveness is not a shrug of the shoulders.
- How I became my woman’s ideal man
In my way of thinking, a little sexual intimacy will connect us. But that may not even be on her radar screen as a woman. Romance for her begins heart to heart…
- How you can avoid emotional adultery
How you can avoid emotional adultery
- I am willing to forgive but ………
This article is essentially to get you to understand what forgiveness implies and help deal with the common misconceptions about forgiveness.
- I am willing to forgive, no matter what this entails
A discussion of the misconceptions that have distorted the meaning of forgiveness due to religious misinterpretation of what forgiveness really is.
- I was addicted to romance beyond what was best
Problems in marriage can be caused by holding “Hollywood” expectations for your spouse, or feeding a romance addiction.
- Let your beliefs be your religion
My religion is a religion of personal growth. Annually I tweak my beliefs to bring them into closer alignment with my understanding of how reality works.
- Overcoming the challenges of emotional fantasies
Men and women certainly entertain thoughts about people other than the people they are married to, but men and women entertain those thoughts differently
- Sex is not the problem
A sexual thought in your mind isn’t necessarily lust, but it becomes lust if it’s entertained and dwelled on. An excitement for sex in marriage isn’t sin.
- Struggles of a wanna be Christian
Even as a non-Christian, I always knew that good would triumph over evil... that God would defeat Satan in that final battle.
- The Barber Who Didn't Believe....
God does exist, what happens is people don't go to Him and do not look for Him that's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world
- The difference between religion and spirituality
The difference between religion and spirituality
- What If The Other Person Won’t Forgive You?
Your partner may be withholding forgiveness because they do not trust what you’re saying. That’s why apologies need to be followed by a behavioural change
- Who really is the Devil and Satan?
Who really is the Devil and Satan?
- A Christian woman’s dirty little secret
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