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> <channel><title>Show the world the light</title> <atom:link href="http://www.olotu.org/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.olotu.org</link> <description>A forum for opinions, discussions and confessions</description> <lastBuildDate>Fri, 24 Jun 2011 00:54:50 +0000</lastBuildDate> <language>en</language> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1</generator> <xhtml:meta xmlns:xhtml="http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml" name="robots" content="noindex" /> <item><title>Do You Believe In Your Dreams?</title><link>http://www.olotu.org/2011/do-you-believe-in-your-dreams/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=do-you-believe-in-your-dreams</link> <comments>http://www.olotu.org/2011/do-you-believe-in-your-dreams/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 09 Apr 2011 19:30:49 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Donna Gild</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Mysteries]]></category> <category><![CDATA[beliefs]]></category> <category><![CDATA[believe]]></category> <category><![CDATA[dream]]></category> <category><![CDATA[dreaming]]></category> <category><![CDATA[human mind]]></category> <category><![CDATA[importance]]></category> <category><![CDATA[meaning]]></category> <category><![CDATA[mind]]></category> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.olotu.org/?p=300</guid> <description><![CDATA[The act of believing in ones dreams is the secret magic ingredient which empowers them to become real. Dreaming without believing will not make your dreams come true; they will remain at a tantalizing distance until eventually your dream will simply fade and disappear.
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.olotu.org/?p=246</guid> <description><![CDATA[If you are considering breast lift surgery, there are some important things about the surgery that you should know. Breast lift, as with any surgery, requires preparation and planning. Women who want a breast lift need to provide the certified Cosmetic Surgeon with a thorough medical history and status.]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.olotu.org/2011/what-women-need-to-know-about-breast-lift/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>1</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Overcoming the challenges of emotional fantasies</title><link>http://www.olotu.org/2011/overcoming-the-challenges-of-emotional-fantasies/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=overcoming-the-challenges-of-emotional-fantasies</link> <comments>http://www.olotu.org/2011/overcoming-the-challenges-of-emotional-fantasies/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2011 19:00:03 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Cindy Wright</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Religion]]></category> <category><![CDATA[challenges]]></category> <category><![CDATA[emotional]]></category> <category><![CDATA[fantasies]]></category> <category><![CDATA[fantasy]]></category> <category><![CDATA[men]]></category> <category><![CDATA[of]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Overcoming]]></category> <category><![CDATA[the]]></category> <category><![CDATA[thoughts]]></category> <category><![CDATA[women]]></category> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.olotu.org/?p=324</guid> <description><![CDATA[Every woman’s battle is not to compare their husbands to other men. I was in the process of doing that for a number of years. I compared him to my college professor — he wasn’t as intelligent; I compared him to my pastor — he wasn’t as spiritually passionate; I compared him to lots of other men — and in some way or another he didn’t measure up.]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.olotu.org/2011/overcoming-the-challenges-of-emotional-fantasies/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>6</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Self-interested behaviour in a relationship</title><link>http://www.olotu.org/2011/self-interested-behaviour-in-a-relationship/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=self-interested-behaviour-in-a-relationship</link> <comments>http://www.olotu.org/2011/self-interested-behaviour-in-a-relationship/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Sat, 05 Feb 2011 11:08:05 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Nosa Olotu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category> <category><![CDATA[agreement]]></category> <category><![CDATA[behaviour]]></category> <category><![CDATA[mutually]]></category> <category><![CDATA[partner]]></category> <category><![CDATA[self-interested]]></category> <category><![CDATA[spouse]]></category> <category><![CDATA[supporting]]></category> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.olotu.org/?p=1114</guid> <description><![CDATA[Self-interested behaviour is a problem in most relationships; it is not unique to you. Remember the Taker's rule?. People are tempted to do whatever makes them happy, even when it makes their spouses or partners unhappy. When people are inconsiderate they don't feel the pain or suffering their spouse or partner feels. They feel the pleasure gained from engaging in activities that are only in their best interest.
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.olotu.org/?p=1108</guid> <description><![CDATA[If you have serious doubts about the relationship, do not fool yourself into believing that your partner will somehow magically change once you "get married" or "move in together." If you find yourself hoping that they will become less moody, less stingy, less angry, less jealous, or more loving, you are running a big risk of being disappointed and will most likely be headed towards divorce. If the potential for change is important to you, look for this trait BEFORE you commit yourself to the relationship, not after. ]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.olotu.org/2011/making-a-successful-singles-connection/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>2</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Christian women’s pornographic addiction</title><link>http://www.olotu.org/2011/christian-women%e2%80%99s-pornographic-addiction/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=christian-women%25e2%2580%2599s-pornographic-addiction</link> <comments>http://www.olotu.org/2011/christian-women%e2%80%99s-pornographic-addiction/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2011 00:20:23 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Cindy Wright</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Religion]]></category> <category><![CDATA[addiction]]></category> <category><![CDATA[christian]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Christians]]></category> <category><![CDATA[loneliness]]></category> <category><![CDATA[pornography]]></category> <category><![CDATA[women]]></category> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.olotu.org/?p=312</guid> <description><![CDATA[Loneliness also is the reason Rose, a single mom, turned to porn. She didn't go looking for it in the beginning. "I was seeking companionship. In chatting with other lonely people struggling in their marriages, I learned of some Internet sites I could visit to make friends and have fun. At first, the sexual talk in these chatrooms seemed harmless and non threatening. My loneliness and craving to feel wanted drew me into relationships I really didn't want."]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.olotu.org/2011/christian-women%e2%80%99s-pornographic-addiction/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>5</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>Success in life depends on your beliefs</title><link>http://www.olotu.org/2011/success-in-life-depends-on-your-beliefs/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=success-in-life-depends-on-your-beliefs</link> <comments>http://www.olotu.org/2011/success-in-life-depends-on-your-beliefs/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2011 00:15:52 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Nosa Olotu</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Life]]></category> <category><![CDATA[beliefs]]></category> <category><![CDATA[empowerment]]></category> <category><![CDATA[potential]]></category> <category><![CDATA[reality]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Religion]]></category> <category><![CDATA[success]]></category> <category><![CDATA[success in life]]></category> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.olotu.org/?p=90</guid> <description><![CDATA[So in deciding which beliefs to embrace and which to drop, I keep going back to the concepts of empowerment and potential. I strive to dump beliefs that curtail my ability to access my potential while strengthening beliefs that unlock more potential. If one form of prayer doesn’t seem to work at all, but another one works often, I’m going to adopt more of the latter context.]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.olotu.org/2011/success-in-life-depends-on-your-beliefs/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>1</slash:comments> </item> <item><title>In love or addicted to love?</title><link>http://www.olotu.org/2011/in-love-or-addicted-to-love/?utm_source=rss&#038;utm_medium=rss&#038;utm_campaign=in-love-or-addicted-to-love</link> <comments>http://www.olotu.org/2011/in-love-or-addicted-to-love/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2011 00:05:46 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Abierto Sony Ericsson</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Relationship]]></category> <category><![CDATA[addict]]></category> <category><![CDATA[addicted to love]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Love]]></category> <category><![CDATA[love addiction]]></category> <category><![CDATA[loving]]></category> <category><![CDATA[relationships]]></category> <category><![CDATA[romantic]]></category> <category><![CDATA[romantic relationships]]></category> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.olotu.org/?p=274</guid> <description><![CDATA[And even in the rush of a new romantic affair the troubled love or sex addict grows steadily more unhappy, fearful and bored and ends up pushing their partner away or looking outside the relationship for yet another new intensity or "love" experience. Even though the word "love" makes everything sound less harmful, this type of disorder can be very dangerous to both the addict and the object of the addiction.
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isPermaLink="false">http://www.olotu.org/?p=286</guid> <description><![CDATA[If you listen to most apologies, you'll discover that the apologizer is speaking only one or two of the apology languages. If these aren't the languages of the offended person, the apology will sound hollow. He may choose to forgive you, but he'll have lingering doubt about your sincerity. It isn't enough to be sincere. You must express your sincerity in a language your spouse can understand.]]></description> <wfw:commentRss>http://www.olotu.org/2011/the-act-of-apologising-and-forgiveness/feed/</wfw:commentRss> <slash:comments>2</slash:comments> </item> </channel> </rss>
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