Life

The meaning of life: harmony, humour, caring, generosity, sharing and goodwill.

Make your life more fulfilling than anything you’ve ever known

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by Nosa Olotu in ,
You may not know how and that's normal. But the Universe is here to support you more than you know. If you choose to go higher, if you choose to discover your true beauty, if you choose to reveal it, you will begin a journey that is more fulfilling than anything I've ever experienced. To be who you knew you always were deep down is to truly know a freedom and joy like no other.

Controlling and abusive tool: Disrespectful judgments

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by Nosa Olotu in
When we try to impose our opinions on our partner or friend, we imply that they have poor judgment. That's disrespectful. We may not say this in so many words, but it's the clear message that they hear. If we valued their judgment more, we might question our own opinions. What if they're right, and we're wrong? I'm not saying that you can't disagree with your partner or friend. But I want you to respectfully disagree.
 

Helping yourself to overcome alcohol addiction

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by Jenna Brooklyn in
They can and should join a support group. Alcoholics Anonymous is the best-known support group with meetings held often and almost everywhere. People who attend are known only by their first name and each individual is appointed a sponsor, a reliable person they can contact at any time if they find their craving for alcohol is proving too much. Certainly the sponsor and the patient can communicate by phone and email but personal, face to face counseling can sometimes be essential.

Angry outbursts create pain and suffering

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by Cindy Wright in ,
We think we are using anger to protect ourselves, and it offers a simple solution to our problem -- destroy the troublemaker. If our spouse turns out to be the troublemaker, we find ourselves hurting the one we've promised to cherish and protect. When we're angry we don't care about our spouse's feelings and we are willing to scorch the culprit if it prevents us from being hurt again.

How to make friends and influence people

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by Cindy Wright in ,
People who surround you on a daily basis are not obligated to become friends- you must make an conscious effort to be receptive to the needs of others. From our earliest childhood experiences we can well remember sensing the relative 'friendliness' of those around us. Before any new friendship can be formed, both parties must display a level of interest that goes beyond individual needs. This is the basic cornerstone of friend making.

The trends in moral fashion

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by Cindy Wright in
Years ago it fashionable for the white British to use the phrase, "catch a nigger by the toe." That was then, when no one battered an eye. May be some people did but didn’t show it or I was not aware of their reactions. How could I be aware when I didn't even know what a nigger was!
A friendly person

How to Become Known as a Friendly Person

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by Nosa Olotu in
Sometimes we struggle with feelings of inadequacy. Some people will put themselves down just to get it said and over with before someone else says it. Don't put yourself down! Sometimes, people are smart, but don't want others to feel that they think they are better than others. They may put themselves down in an attempt to make others perceive them as humble. Self- put downs will accomplish neither goal. The truth is, we all have weaknesses and feelings of inadequacy.

Accepting others for who and what they are

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by Donna Gild in
People are who and what they are. They don't change because we see potential in them. They don't change because we want them to be more, better, different. Snakes bite, wolves howl, and scorpions sting. That's just how it is. Why can't women accept that you can't turn a frog into a Prince, no matter how many times you kiss him?

Your life has incredible potential

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by Fia Candall in
We are the only ones who can change our reality. And in my experience you never do it "out there". It is definitely an inside job. And what a blessing that is, there is no need to push and chase something that is outside of you! Anything that might happen in your future, any new relationships that might unfold, new career paths that could open up, exciting new experiences that you may have...all of this exists within YOU right now as potential.
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