Cindy Wright

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The trends in moral fashion

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Years ago it fashionable for the white British to use the phrase, "catch a nigger by the toe." That was then, when no one battered an eye. May be some people did but didn’t show it or I was not aware of their reactions. How could I be aware when I didn't even know what a nigger was!
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Would you consider flirting on the Internet as cheating?

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The other person may not know the person who is flirting with them is married. They may build up romantic feelings for the flirting married person and they eventually find out that this person is married, is that fair? It puts them into a place of pain as they then have to make the decision to tear their heart away from someone they care for or they end up participating in cheating — either way, they lose.

How to keep marriage romantic (part 2)

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Postponing romance until kids leave the house shouldn’t be an option. Romance when kids are around is tepid, at best. So parents always end up with the well-worn favorite: date night. “When parents schedule time together regularly, they’re amazed at how different their lives look afterward,” said Jordan. “They’re much less angry with each other. It really makes a difference.”

How to keep marriage romantic (part 1)

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A kiss is important because how couples greet each other “sets the emotional tone for intimacy for the whole rest of the evening,” said Parrot, who co-wrote “When Bad Things Happen to Good Marriages” with her husband, Les. “If you start off with ‘What’s for dinner?’ or ‘Did you get the mail?’ that sets a different tone.”

I was addicted to romance beyond what was best

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One of the contributing problems is that sometimes, “the grass can look greener on the other side of the street” than it really is. When you live with each other in marriage day in and day out, and when you are looking at perfection —or close to it (on the big screen or on the written page) more than is healthy, it can be problematic to your marriage.

The difference between religion and spirituality

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Like all human systems and structure, even the purest of intentions can become tainted and so throughout human history there have been countless instances in which the pure and holy intention of a religious teaching becomes twisted and used to justify negativity and harm towards others.

How do you forgive an unrepentant partner?

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The worst case of all is when a wrong is done and never acknowledged by either party. One suffers in pain, the other in guilt, but both suffer in silence. The bonds of matrimony soon fray as forgiveness is neither sought nor offered. That’s why we encourage solution-based approaches to mend the marriage relationship.

Are there times when we shouldn’t forgive?

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A woman stalked up to me angrily after I had spoken about forgiveness at a seminar for separated and divorced people. “You Christians are all alike,” she ranted. “You judge me and tell me what I should do, but you don’t have to live in my shoes!”

Sex is not the problem

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Noticing an attractive person is not wrong, but undressing that person with your eyes or imagining what it would he like to “have” them is. A sexual thought that pops into your mind isn’t necessarily lust, but it can quickly become lust if it’s entertained and dwelled on. An excitement for sex in marriage isn’t sin, but it can be tainted by lust if it’s not tempered with patience and restraint.
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