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- Festivals (3)
  A festival: unique aspect of people’s religious, music, dance, culture, social or ethical beliefs.
  An insight about Christmas: The story of the Little Prince
  An insight about Christmas: The story of the Little Prince
  It’s christmas time again
  In this festive period of shopping and merry a thought about what Christmas really mean
  Why do we celebrate New Year?
  New Year is celebrated in different ways for different reasons, due to tradition and religious beliefs.
- Life (53)
  The meaning of life: harmony, humour, caring, generosity, sharing and goodwill.
  Accepting others for who and what they are
  Accepting others for who and what they are
  All Men are Created Equal?
  All Men are Created Equal?
  Always means always, even when it is raining tears.
  So I asked her if she trusted me, and if she knew that I would spend the rest of my life with her, no matter what turns it took.
  Anger and gender expression
  Anger and gender expression
  Angry outbursts create pain and suffering
  Angry outbursts create pain and suffering
  Breaking up and divorce can sometimes hurt
  Breaking up and divorce can sometimes hurt
  Change Your Attitude by Tricking Your Brain
  Let your brain start working for you, instead of against you. What a powerful comrade to have on your side!
  Connect with your true self and overcome challenges
  Connect with your true self and overcome challenges
  Controlling and abusive tool: Disrespectful judgments
  Disrespectful judgments as a controlling and abusive tool
  Culture influence who we are and what we do
  Culture influence who we are and what we do
  Dare to stand for yourself and dare to be different!
  Dare to stand for yourself and dare to be different and deal with deal with that feeling of frustration
  Difference between ethics and beliefs
  Difference between ethics and beliefs
  Do not deny your negative emotions but challenge it
  Do not deny your negative emotions but challenge it
  Ethics and Morality: The Morality Pendulum
  Ethics and morality pendulum will continue to swing.
  Hell Yes, I'm a Bitch!!!! Are you??
  Being a btitch means I have the courage and strength to allow myself to be who I truly am and won't become anyone else's idea of what they think I "should" be
  Helping someone get over the loss of a loved one
  Losing a loved one is very difficult. No matter if it was a shock, or if it was coming, one can never be ready for that ultimate goodbye to their loved one.
  Helping yourself to overcome alcohol addiction
  Admit yourself to a residential treatment center for fighting alcoholism to win the war against alcoholism
  How to Become Known as a Friendly Person
  Friendliness is the feeling of liking for another person and enjoyment in their company, being open toward other people and developing a relationship with them.
  How To Build Confidence
  Replace those negative thoughts with positive ones and display a natural confident personality like the confident successful people you are surrounded with
  How to create a new you and live your dream
  How to create a new you and live your dream
  How to effectively reduce belly fat
  Extra belly fat increases the risk of heart disease. With so many weight loss programmes people are feeling confused about how to effectively reduce belly fat
  How to lie - Convincing yourself first
  How to lie - Convincing yourself first
  How to make friends and influence people
  Before any new friendship can be formed, both parties must display a level of interest that goes beyond individual needs.
  How we get stuck in grief and how to let go
  The grieving process and how to let go of grief
  How you can support a grieving friend
  the simple act of being there is tremendous comfort to the grieving person. Listening to someone talk about the deceased is often just what is needed
  I wish you enough…….
  Father and daughter in their last moments together at the airport.
  Is your logical mind holding you back?
  Is your logical mind holding you back?
  Let the world recognise you by your courage
  We project courage onto others—assuming they're naturally lionhearted—to abdicate responsibility for our own boldness.
  Living in denial of pain and sorrow
  The longer you live the more loss you experience. In order to grieve in healthy ways, you need to understand the stages of the grief process itself
  Make your life more fulfilling than anything you've ever known
  Make your life more fulfilling than anything you've ever known
  Marriage, women and their breast size
  Apart from pregnancy, weight gain, no exercise and birth control or drugs will cause an increase in breast size.
  Nicotine addiction: A never ending battle
  Nicotine is a highly addictive drug and with regards to dependency, many experts rank it ahead of alcohol, cocaine and even heroin.
  Nicotine addiction: A never ending battle
  Nicotine addiction: A never ending battle
  Personal growth is all about the self image (part 1)
  As a child you would have experienced good and bad episodes that formed your negative self image which cannot be improved by rational argument
  Personal growth is all about the self image (part 2)
  Realise that your self image will only RESPOND TO EMOTION ONCE AGAIN. So you must IMAGINE and VISUALISE what you want by EXCITED about every aspect of it
  Success in life depends on your beliefs
  Some beliefs I found consistently disempowering. I strive to dump beliefs that curtail my ability to access my potential in life
  Talking with the Devil
  My heart is filled with many fears, but despite everything, the fruits of my life speak for me. The devil scare the weaker - people
  The act of apologising and forgiveness
  A sincere apology isn't perceived as sincere because it's spoken in the wrong language.
  The difference between race and ethnicity
  What is the difference between race and ethnicity
  The impact of our beliefs on our happiness
  It is the difference in a perspective that states this is the way that life is supposed to be versus this is the way life actually is.
  The route to your dreams is not stable and steady
  The route to your dreams is not stable and steady
  The trends in moral fashion
  New ethical standards come and some of the old go. I hold no regret for some of the primitive cultures that were perpetuated against the oppressed majority.
  The White Man's Burden
  The White Man's Burden was written over a hundred years ago.
  Tips for a safe and successful face lift
  All surgical procedures have inherent risks and complications, including adverse reaction to the anaesthesia, risk of infections and damage to facial nerves.
  Understanding the stages of the grief process
  The stronger the love the greater the grief. The act of grieving honours you and the significance of your loss
  West and its influence on the Rest
  West and its influence on the Rest
  What is responsible for the lack of tolerance in the society?
  there is no one cause responsible for the increased level of intolerance. One can say that those who are intolerant appear to suffer from perceived insecurity.
  What women need to know about breast lift
  Breast lift as with any surgery, requires preparation and planning.
  Why men need women
  Why men need women
  Wining is not everything
  Those who do not accept that winning is not everything will be the ones who never take risk in their life
  You can get pregnant without having sex
  Men release a pre-ejaculation fluid that contains sperm. This pre-ejaculation does not offer the man the same sensations as regular ejaculation
  Your life has incredible potential
  life incredible potential
  Your past doesn't have to be your future
  Let go your fear of the past as your past doesn't have to be your future
- Mysteries (27)
  Mysteries explained: dreams, death, rebirth or reincarnation, and the mysteries of the universe.
  Always walk on the Spiritual Path
  Walking the Spiritual Path is a literal and figurative way of life
  Be open to receive what you create!
  Learning to be open to receive what you create!
  Connect with your true self and overcome challenges
  Connect with your true self and overcome challenges
  Do not deny your negative emotions but challenge it
  Do not deny your negative emotions but challenge it
  Do You Believe In Your Dreams?
  Dreaming without believing will not make your dreams come true, but a tantalizing distance until eventually your dream will simply fade and disappear.
  Do you think the Universe is friendly?
  If the universe is really a friendly place, why not all of our dreams become fulfilled?
  Harness the power of subconscious mind
  It is possible to get in touch with and harness the power of subconscious mind by getting a clear vision of what you want in your life
  How to create a new you and live your dream
  How to create a new you and live your dream
  Is there a ghost following her?
  Is there a ghost? Does ghost exist? What is the explanation for a paranormal presence?
  Let your actions mirror your beliefs
  Whatever your religious or spiritual beliefs, how well do you practice them? Do you walk your talk?
  Make your life more fulfilling than anything you've ever known
  Make your life more fulfilling than anything you've ever known
  Psychic Readings Fantasy or Reality?
  Whether you believe in psychics, psychic abilities, or the paranormal talking with a psychic may help relieve stress and anxiety from your life.
  Re: Is there a ghost following her?
  Is there a ghost? Does ghosts exist?
  Recognizing and using your intuitive power
  Recognizing and using your intuitive power
  Snakes in cultural and religious beliefs
  The way that people feel about snakes is heavily influenced by cultural beliefs and mythology. Many people may be afraid of snakes because some are venomous
  The Dark night of the Soul: Your Ego Sense
  Your ego sense is so powerful — you invest it with so much of your thought and feeling — that your attitudes of life become based on an egocentric…
  The difference between ghost and spirit
  The difference between ghost and spirit
  The difference between religion and spirituality
  The difference between religion and spirituality
  The mysteries of the human mind
  The human mind is powerful. There is no doubt that human mind has no limits. The truth is, there is absolutely NO limit to our human mind power
  The route to your dreams is not stable and steady
  The route to your dreams is not stable and steady
  The transformation to higher consciousness
  The dark night occurs after considerable advancement toward higher consciousness
  What is the meaning of life? Part 1
  Introduction to the true meaning of life
  What is the meaning of life? Part 2
  Second part of the introduction to the true meaning of life.
  What is the meaning of life? Part 3
  The third part of the introduction to the true meaning of life
  What is the meaning of life? Part 4
  The fourth part of the introduction to the true meaning of life
  What is the meaning of life? Part 5
  The fifth of the introduction to the true meaning of life
  Your past doesn't have to be your future
  Let go your fear of the past as your past doesn't have to be your future
- Relationship (89)
  Marriage, love, orgasm, sex, affairs, fatansies, flirting, loyalty and honesty.
  21st-Century dating rules for men
  21st-Century dating rules for men
  A real killer of romance and intimacy
  It’s intimacy that most of us lack when we say we don’t feel anything for our partners
  Alcohol and drug addiction: The problem of co-dependence.
  Co-dependents need to realize that they cannot make an addict stop his addiction
  Angry outbursts create pain and suffering
  Angry outbursts create pain and suffering
  Are you wasting your time loving "Suckas?"
  Examples of specific situations you may come across that clearly indicate you are involved with a sucka (or sucker)
  Becoming a human lie detector: Three attack-sequence primers
  These sequence of questions virtually guarantees that you will know (a) if you’re being deceived (b) what the truth is if it’s not obvious from the lie.
  Breaking up and divorce can sometimes hurt
  Breaking up and divorce can sometimes hurt
  Common online dating mistakes guys make
  Common online dating mistakes guys make
  Confessions of a cheating wife
  A cheating wife is having an emotional intimacy based extramarital relationship
  Dating is a sport - Just like fishing!
  Dating is a sport - Just like fishing!
  Dating, lies and deception are often a package deal
  Dating, lies and deception are often a package deal
  Dealing with argumentative people
  One can be provoked into an argumentative situation at any given moment
  Dealing with the hurt and pain of rejection
  Dealing with the hurt and pain of rejection
  Don’t be seduced and provoked by argumentative people
  Provocative and argumentative people are out there that derive pleasure from pushing your buttons.
  Forgiving infidelity and cheating
  Forgiving infidelity and cheating
  General indications of deceit
  In an ideal society there would be no need for lies. But we live in a world of deception
  Gross and disgusting dating behaviours
  Gross and disgusting dating behaviours
  Habits that cause your spouse to be unhappy
  Habits that cause your spouse to be unhappy
  Have you gone too far with your fantasies?
  The impact of romantic fantasies on marriage
  How and why men sneak out of relationships
  How and why men sneak out of relationships
  How I became my woman’s ideal man
  In my way of thinking, a little sexual intimacy will connect us. But that may not even be on her radar screen as a woman. Romance for her begins heart to heart…
  How to arouse your woman by stimulating her breast
  Breasts have many nerve endings that it doesn't really require a lot of effort to stimulate a woman via her breasts or nipples.
  How to be stuck in a woman's head
  How to you get stuck in a woman's head so she wants more
  How to bring a woman to orgasm everytime
  Some men can get a woman worked into a sexual frenzy during foreplay, but then when it comes to intercourse, the momentum doesn't continue.
  How to build trust in a relationship
  How to build trust in a relationship
  How to flirt to date a shy man
  How to flirt to date a shy man provides suggestions on how to get a shy man out of his shell.
  How to forgive infidelity and move on
  With the right guidance and understanding from your partner, you can not only rebuild your marriage, but make it more loving and stronger than it was before.
  How to get a girl to have sex with you
  How to get a girl to have sex with you
  How to get a woman to love you
  How to get a woman to love you
  How to get your woman to reach orgasm during intercourse
  A suggested lists of the best sex positions for a woman to reach orgasm during intercourse
  How to increase sexual stamina
  Three simple tips on how you can increase sexual stamina
  How to keep marriage romantic (part 1)
  How to keep marriage romantic
  How to keep marriage romantic (part 2)
  How to keep marriage romantic
  How to lie - Convincing yourself first
  How to lie - Convincing yourself first
  How to lie to your partner when having an affair
  Sometimes the success of the lies you tell when committing adultery and infidelity will depend on: how much sense the facts of your story make to your lover.
  How to make friends and influence people
  Before any new friendship can be formed, both parties must display a level of interest that goes beyond individual needs.
  How to seduce a man and make him beg for more
  Seducing a man can be as easy as it can be hard without knowing what to do. You need to know the right things to do at the right time.
  How to tell if a guy likes you
  How to tell if a guy likes you
  How to tell if your girl will cheat on you (part 1)
  She may have an amazing heart, but if her mental strength is low in certain situations she’ll just give in to any guys advances
  How to tell if your girl will cheat on you (part 2)
  Weak will power is a question of mental strength, being gullible is a question of mental awareness, how easily her perception can be altered and manipulated
  How to tell if your girl will cheat on you (part 3)
  A lot of girls cheat because they think that guys are going to cheat on them anyway, so they just do it.
  How to tell if your girl will cheat on you (part 4)
  When it comes to assessing the likelihood of her cheating on you, this is single most important characteristic.
  How to watch out for the signs of deception
  In an ideal society there would be no need for lies. But we live in a world of deception.
  How you can avoid emotional adultery
  How you can avoid emotional adultery
  I was addicted to romance beyond what was best
  Problems in marriage can be caused by holding “Hollywood” expectations for your spouse, or feeding a romance addiction.
  Important factors to consider when choosing a partner
  Important factors to consider when choosing a partner
  Improving your romantic skills
  If a man doesn't know how to romance a woman properly then the woman will become bored and unsatisfied in the relationship, and look for other options. Most…
  In love or addicted to love?
  Loving relationships develop into deeper, longer term closeness and one may become addicted to love. Love addiction is a result of unfulfilled childhood needs.
  Internet affairs and fantasies will hurt you
  you cannot find happiness by indulging in internet affairs and fantasies.
  Internet affairs: The signs to watch out for
  The reality is online infidelity is a growing problem and because of the nature of cyberspace it makes catching a cheating spouse a lot more difficult.
  Love, sex and the male brain
  The male brain sexual pursuit area that is 2.5 times larger than the female's
  Lovemaking techniques for today’s lovers
  Lovemaking techniques for today's lovers
  Making a successful singles connection
  we can take charge of our lives and enter into committed relationships with a clearer idea of what is right and wrong for us
  Meeting the essential romantic needs of a woman
  One reason so many marriage beds are frozen over or boring is that couples just don’t have time for romance and sex.
  Overcoming the quilt of infidelity
  Countless relationships end as a result of infidelity because the person who cheated couldn't forgive themselves.
  Parental relationship soured over interracial romance
  Parental relationship soured over interracial romance
  Physical intimacy is essential in marriage
  Physical intimacy is essential in marriage. When you fail to cultivate physical intimacy and romance with your wife, she is left with a void in her soul.
  Romancing your woman
  Romancing your woman inspires her and brings feelings of intimacy to the surface.
  Self-interested behaviour in a relationship
  Self-interest behaviour in a relationship is a non-mutually supporting behaviour
  Selfish demands, controlling and manipulative spouse
  Selfish demands, controlling and manipulative spouse
  Sex positions that offer maximum satisfaction
  If she wants to have an orgasm during vaginal intercourse, then she needs a sex position that is more likely to deliver it
  Talking dirty to pleasure men
  Dirty talk is a type of pillow talk. You use vivid words to augment sexual enjoyment before and during the lovemaking.
  The absolutely best sexual position for deep penetration
  This article gives the absolutely best sexual position for those couples who wish the deepest penetration possible
  The best way to start an online sex affair
  What makes online dating services so excellent for this is that they simultaneously allow for confidentiality and secrecy without showing your hand.
  The difference between Loving and being in Love
  The difference between Loving and being in Love
  The early warning signs of a doomed relationship
  The early warning signs of a doomed relationship
  The major reasons guys don't call after a few dates
  The major reasons guys don't call after a few dates
  The problem of co-dependence in a relationship
  The co-dependent could be addicted to approval of others; could only be happy if others “make them" feel happy. They also can be “If-only” addicted.
  The qualities responsible men consider as sexy
  The qualities responsible men consider as sexy
  The real purpose of a relationship
  The real purpose of a relationship
  The signs of attraction between a man and a woman
  The signs of attraction between a man and a woman
  The smart way to choose a lover
  The smart way to choose a lover
  The wandering eye: every man’s battle
  As with physically attractive women, if your shields aren’t up, and don't recognize the threat to your marriage, you’re flirting with danger.
  There are no cultural barriers to keeping romance alive
  Culture is no barrier to keeping romance alive but it adds stress to marriage.
  Tips for using online dating services
  Tips for using online dating services
  Tips on how to have more magnetism and charisma
  Tips on how to have more magnetism and charisma and influencing people
  Unconditional love is the best present ever
  Unconditional love is the best present ever couples can give each other
  Useful guard to using the phone when having an affair
  Most men and women develop a love-hate relationship with their cell phones when they start committing some type of infidelity or adultery.
  What are the main reasons why people cheat?
  What are the main reasons why people cheat?
  What do women really want from men
  What women want from men. A definitive list of exactly what women look for in a man.
  What If The Other Person Won’t Forgive You?
  Your partner may be withholding forgiveness because they do not trust what you’re saying. That’s why apologies need to be followed by a behavioural change
  What makes a male a man?
  What makes a male a man?
  Which is the greater trait, loyalty or honesty?
  The seemingly loyal devotee isn't at all loyal. They're dishonest; while the honest devotee is loyal to principle before position.
  Why do men dread commitment in a relationship?
  Why do men dread commitment in a relationship?
  Why do people cheat on their partners?
  The people with low self esteem who stay with assholes fear losing the relationship more and are more committed
  Why some people hate rules but fear God
  When people love God and love their neighbour, they don't need petty rule-makers, they need freedom.
  Women can ruin relationships with some disclosures
  How women can ruin relationships with some disclosures
  Would you consider flirting on the Internet as cheating?
  Just because it’s on the internet, it doesn’t mean that integrity is supposed to be removed from our actions. Integrity is who you are, and what you do.
  “Dump proof” your relationship
  The smart man, treating his "independent" woman with respect and consideration, easily "dump proofs" his relationship!
- Religion (23)
  Understanding the art of workhsip, faith and the faithful, holy ghost and holy spirit, the Satan and the devil.
  A Christian woman’s dirty little secret
  Men aren't the only ones today lured by Internet or television porn; a rising number of Christian women are becoming addicted to porn
  A psychic and a prophet - are they really different?
  A psychic is to a psychic reading, and a prophet is to a prophecy. However, people fail to see these similarities because of differences in faith
  A real killer of romance and intimacy
  It’s intimacy that most of us lack when we say we don’t feel anything for our partners
  Are there times when we shouldn’t forgive?
  Whether the offense is as major as an extramarital affair or as minor as leaving the cap off the toothpaste, forgiveness requires repentance rather than excuse
  Christian women’s pornographic addiction
  An explanation for Christian women’s pornographic addiction
  Counselling for Christian women addicted to porn
  The lures of Internet pornography is you don't have to go anywhere or spend any money to become seduced by it. Over 70 percent of porn sites offer free images.
  Facing your soul's Dark Night
  Facing your soul's Dark Night allows you to know your place in relationship with the Great Spirit.
  Freedom from resentment
  We control our behaviour and ultimately resolve unpleasant feelings by a process —forgiving— that begins with an act of the will
  Gaining a positive attitude despite being hurt
  Biblical forgiveness always insists on personal moral responsibility
  How do you forgive an unrepentant partner?
  Forgiveness can set a person free. It can breathe new life into a tired marriage. But it’s hard work. Forgiveness is not a shrug of the shoulders.
  How I became my woman’s ideal man
  In my way of thinking, a little sexual intimacy will connect us. But that may not even be on her radar screen as a woman. Romance for her begins heart to heart…
  How you can avoid emotional adultery
  How you can avoid emotional adultery
  I am willing to forgive but ………
  This article is essentially to get you to understand what forgiveness implies and help deal with the common misconceptions about forgiveness.
  I am willing to forgive, no matter what this entails
  A discussion of the misconceptions that have distorted the meaning of forgiveness due to religious misinterpretation of what forgiveness really is.
  I was addicted to romance beyond what was best
  Problems in marriage can be caused by holding “Hollywood” expectations for your spouse, or feeding a romance addiction.
  Let your beliefs be your religion
  My religion is a religion of personal growth. Annually I tweak my beliefs to bring them into closer alignment with my understanding of how reality works.
  Overcoming the challenges of emotional fantasies
  Men and women certainly entertain thoughts about people other than the people they are married to, but men and women entertain those thoughts differently
  Sex is not the problem
  A sexual thought in your mind isn’t necessarily lust, but it becomes lust if it’s entertained and dwelled on. An excitement for sex in marriage isn’t sin.
  Struggles of a wanna be Christian
  Even as a non-Christian, I always knew that good would triumph over evil... that God would defeat Satan in that final battle.
  The Barber Who Didn't Believe....
  God does exist, what happens is people don't go to Him and do not look for Him that's why there's so much pain and suffering in the world
  The difference between religion and spirituality
  The difference between religion and spirituality
  What If The Other Person Won’t Forgive You?
  Your partner may be withholding forgiveness because they do not trust what you’re saying. That’s why apologies need to be followed by a behavioural change
  Who really is the Devil and Satan?
  Who really is the Devil and Satan?
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