By Nosa Olotu

Enough have been written about what men want in a woman. We have been told that men want women who will be willing to share their affection physically without intimidating them. Yes, believe it; some women simply look too intense or “hot” for men to approach! Now it is time we spare a moment to think about why men need women.

Women are more important than we think, so let’s just stop right now and think how much we need our women. Women love us, nurture us, women are our friends and lovers. We need to appreciate them more and more and never take a woman for granted. Women are raising children, what can be more important than bring a child to this world and raise great human being?

Think about your mother who loved you dearly and wanted the best for you. Mothers sacrifice a lot for their children. Mothers give time, money and anything they can do to love and raise children. Of course fathers are playing a great role too, by providing; spending time and teaching children, but women spend more time than most fathers do. Some fathers are great fathers and can care about child more than a woman, but most women take most responsibility as far as raising kids or household chores.

Why are women willing to do so much work with a little pay off? They aren’t making a lot of money from working so hard in the household…Women do it because they are nice. If men were so nice and took on all responsibilities, then women wouldn’t have to, but women do it because they are nice and because they love it. Women enjoy relationships and meaningful connections with people (friends, family or children).

Women love to care and nurture others, they are taking pride in their work. Love your woman and show her appreciation for anything she does for you. Women want to be appreciated by you and anyone they care about. It’s so easy to hurt people we are close to, so be careful and show your love and appreciation to a woman in your life. Maybe it is your mother, your sister, your wife or daughter. They all want love and appreciation from you and others. Let’s make a world a better place. Let’s love our women for who they are and what they do.

What if you hold resentment and anger toward a woman? If you are angry at a certain woman, it means she is important to you. Why would you be angry at anyone if they didn’t matter? The more that person is important to you, the angrier you could get if you get offended by her.

What if you were hurt by a certain woman and hold resentment toward her, you need to realize that the experience you had was still precocious for both of you. It’s very easy to make someone angry, but it isn’t always easy to resolve conflicts. Forgive what you can forgive and focus on positive. The more positive you do for each other, the easier you will forget about your pain. All people have good and bad in their relationships, but people stay in relationships if good outweighs the bad.